{"page":"<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://lessonplanet.com/assets/packs/css/resources-572d6a42.css\" />\n<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://lessonplanet.com/assets/packs/css/lp_boclips_stylesheets-f4d0de30.css\" media=\"all\" />\n<div data-title='Conflict in Project Management: It&#39;s Your Fault' data-url='/boclips/videos/65d5c6aa7d86b7697a52459b' data-video-url='/boclips/videos/65d5c6aa7d86b7697a52459b' id='bo_player_modal'>\n<div class='boclips-resource-page modal-dialog panel-container'>\n<div class='react-notifications-root'></div>\n<div class='rp-header'>\n<div class='rp-type'>\n<i aria-hidden='true' class='fai fa-regular fa-circle-play'></i>\nVideo\n</div>\n<h1 class='rp-title' id='video-title'>\nConflict in Project Management: It&#39;s Your Fault\n</h1>\n<div class='rp-actions'>\n<div class='mr-1'>\n<a class=\"btn btn-success\" data-posthog-event=\"Signup: LP Signup Activity\" data-posthog-location=\"body_link_boclips\" data-remote=\"true\" href=\"/subscription/new\"><span><span>Get Free Access</span><span class=\"\"> for 10 Days</span><span>!</span></span></a>\n</div>\n</div>\n</div>\n<div class='rp-body'>\n<div class='rp-info'>\n<div aria-label='Hide resource details' class='rp-hide-info' role='button' tabindex='0'>&times;</div>\n<i aria-label='Expand resource details' class='rp-expand-info fai fa-solid fa-up-right-and-down-left-from-center' role='button' tabindex='0'></i>\n<i aria-label='Compress resource details' class='rp-compress-info fai fa-solid fa-down-left-and-up-right-to-center' role='button' tabindex='0'></i>\n<div class='rp-rating'>\n<span class='resource-pool'>\n<span class='pool-label'>Publisher:</span>\n<span class='pool-name'>\n<span class='text'><a data-publisher-id=\"30356011\" href=\"/search?publisher_ids%5B%5D=30356011\">Curated Video</a></span>\n</span>\n</span>\n</div>\n<div class='rp-description'>\n<span class='short-description'>Conflict seems to be a big part of a Project Manager's life...So, you'd better learn to suck it up. And you also need to learn to handle it effectively... and with respect.But you can do betterThe ideal position is to make conflict a...</span>\n<span class='full-description hide'>Conflict seems to be a big part of a Project Manager's life...<br/>So, you'd better learn to suck it up. And you also need to learn to handle it effectively... and with respect.<br/><br/>But you can do better<br/>The ideal position is to make conflict a smaller part of your life. Wouldn't it be good it you could speed up conflict resolution?<br/>And better still, how about if you can reduce the amount of times conflict arises?<br/><br/>You can<br/>In his excellent book, 'Alpha Project <a href='https://geni.us/4AZlM),' target='_blank' rel='nofollow'>Managers' (</a> Andy Crowe reports that the top 2% of project managers are rated nearly twice as highly on their performance on conflict management, than their peers.<br/><br/>Customers, team members, and senior managers do rate them far better than their peers. But, curiously, this is an area where their absolute performance is poor, rating barely over 60%. <br/>So, there is a lot for even the best project managers to learn.<br/><br/>I have a video program: 'Dealing with Conflict in Projects'<br/>Learn more about the course and get a 30% discount with this <a href='https://bit.ly/ConflictYouTube30off' target='_blank' rel='nofollow'>link</a><br/><br/>But, let me give you an absolute top tip<br/>That conflict... It's your fault.<br/>Whether it is your fault or not; it is your fault.<br/>And there are two good reasons for this...<br/><br/>Neither of them is about blame.<br/>1. Sorting out conflict with team members, stakeholders, and sponsors or bosses is your job. So, you may as well take responsibility. Because, if you don't sort it out, guess what? It's your fault.<br/>2. And, if you don't like that, here's a more pragmatic reason. When you take responsibility for the conflict, you allow the other person to save face. 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